Based on your above comments I would suggest you have a good read about flying careers before you sign up with Cabair.
A first officer is a pilot, it's just a rank, and yeh it's a bit like University... You pay loads of cash to get your qualification and as soon as you have done they kick you out and don't take an interest in you... Although Cabair will cost you about double the price of the course because they have a better marketing team.