What have i gained from it?? And no it's not all about me but at some stage you would think that being nice and supporting would come back but its seems its just take and no giving back.
I was a nice and supporting guy to my wife and she left me. She said she wanted a real man.
So long as you continue to lick the ring that is dropping those turds on your head, you will continue to be covered in faeces. Try standing upright and sticking up for your rights. Stop complaining when others stand up for theirs. A sook with brown stuff smeared over his face doesn't make for a good look.