Quote: ''I always try to apply CRM and extend open invitations to the cabin crew to come to the flight deck for take off and landing when the loads are light. You would be surprised at the amount of times we are told "No thanks''
Lets turn that around: would you accept the offer to come back to observe the hosties working in the galley/cabin?
You see, it's a question of priorties and instrests.Don't take it personally.
Next: 15 hrs block, arrive Lax, All we want is food and rest, not to go out to drink.
Many times an offer to order Thai food on behalf is turned down.
So.. reach hotel, grab food box hit the sack.Once again: priorities.