ADFS,
Sorry you seem to have come under attack by a few of the so called colleagues and fellow professionals (I use the term loosely for two individuals particularly) who are so insecure that they feel you have slighted them in some way. I think the rest of us get the idea, and I hope you get yourself sorted with something soon, as I am sure you will. 50's are the new 30's so they say, which is great because that must make me a teenager again! You'll get snapped up i'm sure