DH 98,
I have the same problem as you regarding the JAA/CAA and their lovely regulations regarding eyesight and, because of this have been looking further afield for flight training opportunities.
My left eye is -6.75 and my right -0.25, meaning that the anisometropia, (difference between the two eyes), is too great (limit +/-3 dioptres) and, apart from that, the uncorrected vision is also beyond their limits.
I might have some information that you could use about this and, if you want, feel free to e-mail me:
[email protected]
Hope everything works out for you. As gana.b.a_pilot says: keep trying - if that's what you want to do, then it'll happen!