As much as your gesture would be greatly appreciated I would have to refuse your offer of food. Purely on the grounds of security .... poisoning.
Sorry times we live in.
Back to the thread: At my airline we don't have to 'prove' how much money we have brought to work. We try to trust that we are all adults. Can't say we have had many problems with theft etc.... And I would not allow anyone to rummage through my belongings after a flight without a warrant. Customs aside of course.
I have been given the odd tip over the years, I bought something for the crew to share, later on down route in the hotel.
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