Dear FlyBlue,
I do understand why you didn't like to wear a hat and I know what it is like to wear a hat. When I started my career at KLM, all male flight attendants had to wear a cap. I hated this cap for the same reasons you hated your hat!
In 1992 KLM decided that the male flight attendants didn't have to wear the cap anymore and I was so happy with this decision. Now only the pilots wear a cap.