I have used the Ufly mike set up IT IS BY FAR THE BEST HEADSET OUT THERE. It is a QC2 with a fully TSO'd mike attached to it. SEE the uflymike website for details. For me the bose 10 is to big and too bulky where as the QC2 is lighter and less bulky. It has great noise cancelling ability and is light on the head. plus for commuting its great in the back for just getting some quiet or listining to music. check out the web site and look IT is GREAT!!!
This thing has been mentioned a few times in this thread now.
Be careful if you decide to go this route. When the batteries run out, you don't only lose your ANR but your normal audio as well.
Ps: if it is so quiet, WHY ARE YOU SHOUTING?