Thanks everyone for the responses. I'm I've found a place where I can do everything for $40k, but I'm trying to explore all options. I've sent at least 30 emails to instructors who teach at flying clubs, but they usually charge $45-60/hr for instruction. Going through a flying club for all of the ratings will cost around $42-48k.
The only other alternative that I have is to buy my own plane, hire an instructor, and then rent a plane for the commercial and multi ratings.
Hubbs- No problem. I was able to visit Skymates, Monarch, and one other FBO. If I'm ever in Dallas again I'll be sure to send you a pm.