Gotta say I'm with PAXboy on this one...
It would be easy to express anger at the one who left us
in dire straits... Anger does play a role, but runs its course
through the grieving process.
IMHO, first and foremost, there are NO guarantees in this world.
This means whether it is by intentional suicide or natural causes.
Our lives may be impacted by decisions of others, but it is NOT the
basis for our existance.
I sincerely empathize what the family are going through at this time.
...and yes, I do feel compassion for the pilot who took his own life.