sorry frankg,I admit I was a bit harsh. Most guys I know have a 2nd mortgage on their house, have either sent the wife off to work or paid them out years ago so as to be able to get their blast of salt air and sea spray in the hair on the weekend whilst toiling over over work commitments,repayments etc........
I am sick of flying with children who expect everything on a plate. Please tell me you are not one of them.