kloe,
Whoa there! That sounds a little impulsive and over the top on the basis of what one person tells you.
If it helps at all, I absolutely hated my instructor's course. However, when I started instructing I found out how useful all of it had been, and wrote to my former instructor to thank him for everything. And instructing is fun....most of the time, for the right sort of person.
So your course may not be fun. However, some of what you say does sound as though it's not quite right. Some doesn't, for instance the checking to see if you've covered everything - that's conscientious, and I tend to use notes a lot too, even if I don't think I need them.
If there's somewhere else to go and you're sure your instructor is causing your problems, then go there. If not, stick it out, IF you want to be an instructor. But in my experience, there is no way an FI course will ever be fun!