First things first I was a MALE flt. attendant, not gay.
So the help from pilots was out of pity not coz of my "T&A".
Im now 1000 hrs+ FAA, still looking for a job. I had to quit my job as my X airline was not keen on inter dept. transfers, as in from cabin crew dept to ops.
And now they will not hire me back, mangement is worried I might start a trend. This happens in asia a lot.
But if you look like a model ,boy the whole world of aviation is open for you, check pilots will kill to fly with you and teach you every thing they know.
All the best.