I do not understand what do you mean by an F/O job can be so bad in the middle east airlines as you claim , apart from having to wait for his command 3 - 5 years which is normal unless of course this period is reduced to 2-3 years in certain times subject to airlines' needs, I find nearly every F/O is happy . I think you should stop talking like this about how F/O's feel here and scare peoples off unnecessarilly.