On whose authority do you speak?
What authority do you need to empathise with the bereaved? The only qualification I can think of is membership of an organisation called the human race.
Is your collective tunnel vision such that only the feelings two-twentyninths of the bereaved families merit our concern? Will the dormant pain of the others be routinely re-awakened over the next fifteen years as you wait for a few titbits to be released under the thirty year rule? It's time to drop it. John Day didn't get to be CAS. Consider that to be your victory because it's as good as it's going to get.