AH Ruby,
The person you speak 'ill' of doesn't really mean 'ill' to the Industry...his heart is actually in the 'best' place.
It is just that it is not actually in the RIGHT place. He just doesn't really comprehend the 'subtleness' of the situation(s). (IMHO...)
In time,... ALL will be revealed..........
(
An OLD 'Retired' FSO...)