FE asleep
18-Wheeler. How kind of you to concede that most FE's are good. So too are most Pilots!!
JD. In all my years operating as a FE I was never conscious of being "monitored" by either pilot when managing the fuel, or the pressurisation, or the hydraulics, or the environmental system etc etc. If I was ever monitored other than in the Sim or on a Line Check it was done without being apparent.