As an aside, it is a lemma that some of us tend to be more relaxed than others .. or more serious ... depending on which side of the table one sits.
Some of us write in a more "serious" style than others and comments can be misinterpreted in respect of intent.
Main aim here, though, is to consider all comments with a degree of respect and acceptance which reflects the fact that we represent a wide spectrum of individual and social differences.
Sometimes it is a fine line which separates acceptable banter from unacceptable sarcasm and the like. Generally, the good folk here are able to stay on the preferred side of that line ...