OK, some practical advice to Gai...
Prance about flaunting your orientation overtly, and you WILL end up behind the hangar being kicked in the nuts. Count on it. And no-one will ever know who did it.
STFU and get on with IOT, no-one will know or care whether you're normal, homosexual......or whatever.
Deal with it. Or go elsewhere.
Tough, I agree. But that's the way it is.