C'mon guys.
How many out there weren't in the Red Arrows in a Lincoln bar or club in their early days. I know I was. Didn't work much. However, being a dog handler in the RAFP was a far more successful ploy! Something about having to feed a puppy all through the night - exposes the soft side in the oppo sex.
Sad thing is I'm embarrassed to tell you what I am doing now!