The fact you've even started a thread about this and your choice of handle implies you have issues.
Just go and get on with your job!
There are plenty of other people who are gay in the Air Force and they just do their job and no one cares. Stop bringing it up and do your job.
If someone asks let them know your gay and there need not be any other further discussion.
Whatever you do, don't use it for preferential treatment - that'll get you no where.