Behaviour is what we're talking about. People are entitled to think what they like. Translating it into actions or words is an entirely different matter...
I just thought - imagine if the poster's name was girlpilot, and she asked what it would be like in the RAF as a pilot and whether she would experience any discrimination. She would be being slathered with "looking forward to seeing you on the squadron" etc etc in the style of some 1950's Terry Thomas farce... Would people be lambasting her for a feminist rant and telling her best she keep her woman-like opinions to herself and not give any hint that she thinks like this, how dare she use the forces as a platform for making her disgusted perverted bra-burning opinions public... blah blah blah? I think not.