As I've said in a previous but very similar thread, comments are for the very large part well meant but often descend into the realms of down right unpleasant.
I think it's happened on every single fatal accident thread to date, someone always has to put the boot in and it usually needs some action by the Mod's to gain some sense of normality.
Clearly the deceased family will be most affected, but remember that there are always the other people involved who will have very vivid memories of what went on, not least those who iwere just njured and also (and just as importantly) those who were there when it happened and tried to help.
The AAIB report is clearly a long way off, but if you must speculate, try and do it with some sense of common decency.