B Calm,
Although I have no intention of winding anyone up here, it must be said that attitudes such as you last comment may be the reason that people in the civil side of the industry don't take to ex-forces aircrew.
Although not in the Airforce myself, I have enjoyed 3 great years of experience with them through my time at University. However, when the time came, I decided against joining - not because I was rejected, but because I though it wasn't for me. Not everyone wants to be in the airforce.
Thus, although I have ultimate respect for all members of HM's forces, you cannot deny that attitudes exist that could easily wind up those on the outside!
Regards,
Cuban_8