Try Wedderburn, about half our drive to the south east of Cambelltown.
YWBN: Lat.34 11.2 S Long.150 48.3E
CTAF 122.55 Runway 970 m Sealed bitumen Elev.850 ft
They have a club house with instructors, very friendly relaxed atmosphere, exactly what you are looking for. You can call David the president on 0425 380 965 for more info.
Other than that you got BK (too busy), CN (again too busy) and Hoxton which is closing in 2 months. Lot of flyers ended up at YWBN after the announcement of HOX closing down an BK becoming a money making industrial estate.
PS The NSW Sport Aircraft inc. holding an annual open day and fly-in on the 9. Nov.at YWBN. Drop in and check it out
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