I can see your passion from the length of your post! I don't doubt a word you say & I don't expect to get much change from commenting here, however, reading this thread in it's entirety, one would believe everyone lives in number 4 Privet Drive!!
I've no time for poor parenting either, and kids
are a parent's responsibility, but we were all kids once & I doubt that each contributor could claim to have been an angel 100% of the time - but I'd like to see them try!!