Don't ask here...
Go to the travel advisories from the U.S. and U.K. governments and have a read.
Just look at the style of the posts above and ask yourself, "Do these guys have both oars in the water?"
Go, and enjoy it but just don't get all giddy with over-confidence when you aren't attacked by spear-waving natives on the way to town from the airport so that you assume all of what you can read is just scare stories put about by racists. For instance, the average Nigerian male is 47 years old at time of death. That is a pure fact, not an opinion!