F/O 3-4 bedrooms apartment
CAPT 4 bedrooms villa
If you choose to live in the compound then your housing allowance will be taken away. I hate to say these, but most things that you have heard about Qatar are true. It's not a very nice city to work or live. As for your wife, it might be a bit difficult to find job here in Doha. School also have limited sapce for new kids. (Good school)
Goodluck