I have been reading this thread with interest, I am not a pilot but married to one who flies out of Coventry - so some of what I have read on here makes slightly worrying reading - I understand your sentiments Blondechick - but I also agree with what Pace is saying - it is important for those who fly to try and make some sense of this and understand the potential for this situation to occur again - In this situation people feel the need to do something and to almost be connected to their fellow aviators and this is the site where that happens. This does not in my very humble opinion detract from the absolute horror and tragedy of what has happened and the fact that there are families and friends grieving at this time. Everyone on here whatever their opinion or seemingly insensitive comments will I am sure be sending their sympathy, heartfelt thoughts and love to those people. Rest assured Blondechick that your friend is at peace and in a safe place.