I confirm this is not a problem. People leaving here should be able to make the difference between what is forbidden and real life. I would still strongly recommend to get married should you have any chance to have a baby, since pregnancy out of marriage would be a problem and despite it can be hidden for a while, it's badly comfortable should you experience any medical problem.
I've already been in Dubai for a while with another occupation and it's still very difficult for me to find an FO position. I have similar profile as you (JAR Frozen ATPL and 3000 TT mainly turboprops) and without type rating and/or jet time it seems companies will manage without me...
If you're interested in some Emails and names you can PM me.
Beside this I think that as an instructor you may have opportunities which could be a good deal upon getting something better.
Good luck
