I am merely suggesting that people take on some responsibility for things that happen to them rather than being ever ready to 'place the blame'
Just my opinion, but at 79 years old I believe someone has earned the right to courteous, careful treatment - most are vulnerable at that age.
But then again, one of the reasons I emigrated from the guano deposit known as the UK was because of such brutish behaviour, which is now apparently a societal norm.
I notice about another million Brits did the same thing, maybe there is a message in their somewhere.
Dollydaydream, you should be ashamed of your comments.