My first job was flying in the right seat of a King Air 200 at 42! Two years later I'm now in the left seat and really enjoying the experience. I guess what I'm trying to say is, aviation is not just about flying a 737 or Airbus. There are loads of interesting jobs out there that will reward you with similar pay, a great experience and faster promotion! Just think outside the box a little and look to some of the smaller operators for that niche position. If you're like me and becoming a commercial pilot because of your love for flying, you'll have a great time.
Good luck with the fATPL. It’s tough training, but well worth it when the examiner says “I’m pleased to say you’ve passed”!
Dreamer