Long time ago I had a seat fully recline in to me. I like to read and I need arm room as much as leg room. Simple, I just stretch my arms forward.
Also don't forget the last seat in the cabin. They can't recline when the one in front drops in their lap.
Finally avoid Thomas Cook. 28 inch pitch, stuff all recline (so no probs), and you can't get your legs under the seat in front (757).
Monarch A320 - BLISS - able to stretch full length. I have passed on my thoughts to Thomas Cook.