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If you look at an archive of threads in this forum you'll find that the various aspects of landing is one of the most common topics. I would also suggest that we have many and various questions to ask, and I hold up my hand as one of the multitude who had problems getting the hang of it (and still trying to in my case!)
BackPacker's advice is good, but if you are anything like me you'll probably approach the landing worrying about it which in turn makes it all the harder. For me the turning point was where my instructor said something along the lines of "Look, you're here to have fun & this should be fun so don't worry about it".
You can't say "Put landing out of your mind", but as you're practicing try to think of the fun side of what you are doing, have a laugh and hopefully you'll find that it does come easier.