Well, a club can have its rules (such as requiring a PFL for example) ... of course if you don't like them you can do the hour with a non-club aircraft and a non-club instructor if you think it's worth the hassle.
No they can't. The 2 year training flight content is totally at the discretion of he student. As Instructors we can recommend content and if we see areas that need work point them out. But a club can't dictate what goes in the flight.
Or are you just happy to be walked over all the time?