Good on you for doing as much hand flying as possible - that's what it's all about afterall.
Nonsense - its is about getting people safely from A to B. Hand flying is a minor perk in suitable conditions, certainly not "what it's all about."
When considering flight training be as objective as you can. Look for the reasons why you
shouldn't spend that £50k thats burning a hole in your back pocket as well as reasons why you should.
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