I think you are in there Brick.
Ummm, I hope that's a 'so to speak' type of comment.
Not for me where hamsters or gerbils fear to tread.....
Which brings the thread back to a
military (you know, those that have served and are thus able to comment here without being a jerk) flavor in that while a gay wingman on a bar foray could act as my 'wingman' back in the day and take the posssesive, fat female friend out of play while the target was pursued, I most assuredly could not return the favor!