Fair enough Idler - I guess what I have been doing is looking around to see what the options are ... so I do take your point about the commit thing...
I have been living in hope that the deals that get put forward are actually worth taking ...but after several 'look sees' I think the best place for me is to stay put.....for a few more years then chuck it in and take it easy.
But it certainly doesn't hurt to have a listen to what they have to say in the interview etc. I think that for the right folks either of the options would have been great... just not me...
Sorry if I am a floosie...its just after years of prostituting myself I dont know when to stop..