gipilot
Repeat after me: I am utterly ignorant about cultural differences.
Repeat after me: I am totally clueless about socio-economics.
Repeat after me: I can't believe that I've exposed myself as a cultural dumbass, by postng this thought on a public forum.
Yes it is "just you".
If you really are after that "crew feeling", ask one of the male cabin attendants out to the pub (or maybe that's not really what you're after).
You sound like a real catch. I can't understand why the women aren't all over you.
Have a nice day.
CW