How about a compromise with the wife? Agree with her that putting the dog in kennells is bad for him etc. Then explain that due to the requirements of DEFRA,"Must use dedicated carrier, no private boats, planes is correct", she can drive over in the car with the dog, and you meet the other side with the plane! Once in Schengen land you can all get on the plane and go where ever you want! And i bet you can park the car at Calais or L2k for free! Its a win win situation, you show compasion for the dog, good point, and you get to take the plane, very good point!!
Julian what plane do you have? As with 4 dogs i hope its a big one
