I have taken in the advice of everyone, as I said before I welcome criticism as it's something to build upon and work with, but there are a few who maybe have not been in a similar position not necessarily this exact one, but one which requires a lot of thought, and help from others, and all they seem to do is doubt and condemn.
I know that I have not been the clearest of people and that is down to the fact I am confused and now with some of the responses on here I feel even more confused am aware that some of you age very high calibre and experience people and I respect that, but I was looking for advice and found it in small quantities as the majority got caught up in the minor details.
Again I’ll ask for a moderator to close this thread as it's not getting anyone anywhere.