Somebody who has been there -done that, is always appreciated..however- whatever the pros and cons are, everybody is different and therefore the roads we take are equally different. It's like with any job, company etc...I'm just wondering..what do you mean by 'do you know your first boyfriend will be Lebanese?'.
Btw, ur post on a different forum here was excellent, it's never either\or and I think you managed to portray that
