It is a funny thing but I think Genghis is spot on. Sadly, it doesnt perhaps help alot because that is the way we are made and you cant easily convince yourself to analyse the situation any less.
I reckon landings are an art form! - thats the fun of it. If that is your major problem read the previous postings on this site about landings - they were very good - maybe something there that just clicks with you.
All the best.