Evo7,
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Everyone has problems with this, most people say that eventually it just "clicks". Some people have not been able to highlight what it was that made it "click", but some have, and where they have, try all the suggestions - most probably won't work, but if even one of them does, that's great!
Something which I think helped me was flying frequently. I was at the same stage as you were, when I decided to take a week off work in order to use up some holiday. During my week off, I flew 6 times, and on the 6th time I soloed! I wouldn't recommend flying this often when you're trying to learn and absorb new stuff, but at this stage in the training I found it to be great help.
Most of all, stick with it, don't let it get you down - you
will get there.
Good luck!
FFF
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