the cadetship is financially the only option for me and my family of 6. I would prefer to do it the way yourself and more experienced people have, but money is just not there.
Good luck. You and your family have a tough road to travel. If the option was there, I couldn't afford to learn to fly again these days. The funny aspect is that if I had the chance again, I don't think I'd want to do it anyway. I can only imagine what it's like with a family.