Basil,
You appear to have some serious issues.
Why not follow your own advice?
I suggest that somebody out there should set up a website for aviators where people can login at any time they wish without being monitored by spies
To help you get started, here are the links you need:
The forum software.
A cheap dedicated server host.
A book on publishing law.
Please let us know the url.
Please let us know what rules or "spying" you will or will not impose, too.
Or alternatively, simply shut up and accept that someone else is providing the cash and effort to provide you with a place that you can publish stuff on the internet FOC.