I don't think you could commute in any way and retain your sanity. it would be a 14 hour flight to LAX then connect to DFW or wherever. You might make it home once a month but that would be it. Flights are quite full in the summer (and other times too)
But Asia is a great place to live. You would probably be much happier just leaving the US and working in Asia and go back for visits. Commuting from the other side of the world will kill you.