I am not talking nonsense about intimacy. You sign a specific agreement about that at SQ (no kidding).
Is that the agreement where you are not allowed to have a flight attendent in your room ?
Often you will be in seperate hotels anyway but that may change as moves are afoot to reduce the standard of hotel given to pilots from 4* to "suitable" Guess who decides what's suitable.
DO NOT use the agents the company "gives" you to find an apartment. Look in the newspaper.
If this is the same one I think it is agreed. She seems to be interested only in people who have recently arrived and don't know the going rates. I tried her myself, one of her first questions was "How long have you been here ?" Answer six months, never heard back from her.