It sounds like your training department is severely at fault. Didn't they teach you that no matter what Airbus or the aeroplane thinks, you're the boss?
You don't like what the aeroplane is doing, just go Selected. It doesn't matter if Airbus considers it a "temporary intervention" or whatever. If you want to fly selected, as you see fit, all day long, do it, you're in charge remember, the aeroplane isn't.
However, there is no need to do this, as an understanding of the aeroplane's "thought processes" will leave you fully equipped to fly the aeroplane as it's supposed to be flown, whilst leaving you in control.
Remember, the automation is a slave to you, not you to it.
I think a re-read of the books and new head of training is called for!