Teg,
I cannot believe what you have posted, you say you have no choice, you owe yourself and your family the duty of care not to bury yourself in the brown stuff, that is surely what will happen if you continue with the attitude of " I have no Choice "
...your choice is "Spend your time and money at some other well run place" that way you will see that you do have a choice!
Vfrpilotpb/2
Peter R-B